I make lists and I guess many others do, too. Especially at this time of year and with the encouragement of songs about Santa and buying gifts.
I came across some alternative lists, ones that will last longer than the coming holiday. I am trying to keep these in front of me as well as the list of tasks to do and presents to buy.
The first is five simple rules to be happy(source unknown to me):
1. Free your heart from hatred
2. Free your mind from worries
3. Live simply
4. Give more
5. Expect less
The second list is from anthropologist and author Angeles Arrien and speaks of a fourfold way of love:
1. Showing up – being there.
2. Paying attention – proximity become presence.
3. Telling the truth without shame or blame.
4. Being open to the outcome without being attached to an outcome.
And from John Wesley, founder of United Methodism:
1. Do good
2. Refrain from doing harm
3. Stay in love with God
What is on your list this December?
